What to do to have a successful and fulfilling life?

19. Fake It Until You Make It


Fake It Until You Feel It

If we look at this title from the side of a pessimist who is so amazing that he always finds bad things even when they are almost impossible to find, they will say: Now should I lie to myself? Is it not enough that others are already lying & bullying me?

A completely different story, however, arises from an optimistic person.
Yeah!!! That is, before my wish, dream, and passion come true, I have to behave as if I already have it. This behavior makes sense.
If I practice something, I will be prepared when it comes my way. I can’t start running a Boston marathon on Monday, April 18, 2022. Go to the start line and start running. I must prepare for this and begin to live like the best runner a lot of months before.

Am I going to hurt anyone with this?
No, because everything happens in my head, but this one is just for me :). If anyone doesn’t like my journey to my desired destination, let them withdraw from my life. I won’t stop them.

But how am I supposed to do that, I wonder?
The easiest way is to learn from other people who are already where you want to be. That is, you read various biographies, join different groups that have the same or similar goals as you…. Learn the behavior and thinking of such people who have already achieved or exceeded your goals.

Everyone has the right to perceive the world around them as they see it. Of course, as long as it doesn’t harm others. It’s almost always harder to be an optimist, as many people in these times try to create pessimism because they have enormous financial interests out of it.

But only
can decide what will be the reality for you.

Fake It Until You Make It
Fake It Until You Feel It,
and the day will come when your dreams will come true.